My 2025 Words of the Year

Going into the new year, I thought I would have one word to guide me through the year, but I have now come to two words to be my light. The words are clarity and latibulate. I have to give Plantkween credit for the latter, because when I heard her say the word, it spoke directly to my soul. It is the word I had been looking for that encapsulates my desire in the coming year as a woman, a partner, a mother, and everything in between.

I once heard someone say that so many mental health issues are rooted in a lack of clarity. I have to say, I never thought about it that way. Then I looked into my own life to see how that has impacted me. I can say for sure that one of the things I have always prioritized is knowing where I stand, whether it be personally, professionally, relationally, and in every other aspect of my life. There is nothing worse than being in limbo that will wreak havoc on your mind. I will continue to seek clarity in ways that enrich my life and preserve my mental health and well-being.

The next word is truly a gem right here as I said before. It seems like I have been latibulating for about two decades based on the definition, which is “to hide or seek refuge, often as a way of protecting oneself from external threats or finding solace in a safe space.”

Latibulating is a priority for sanity and peace. Seeking refuge in safe spaces is important for all of us to grow. We find rest and safety in calm spaces; we thrive in safe spaces. Because the way our society is hell-bent on making sure we burn out on both ends is endless. With the year we have all had as a country, those of us who prioritize our well-being can continue to latibulate. Some may take your actions as ostracizing yourself, and to that, I say let them, because only you know what you need.

As I latibulate, I also recognize it as an element of preparation for what is to come. By preserving myself and my energy, I can create and respond to the call of my divine purpose. Being pulled from every direction can make a soul grow weary and lose the zeal for pursuing our passions. Latibulate for restoration and refocus, and in the process, seek clarity. Now go forth into 2025 with a purpose.

Have you chosen your word for the year?